Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Bride of Vegan

We are getting hitched. We're actually in the thick of wedding plans now. We're planning a small but elegant country wedding in central Vermont. People keep asking why VT. When people get married in The Bahamas no one asks them why The Bahamas. Apparently only people who like the beach are supposed to have destination weddings. We do not like the beach, we like the mountains, and we wanted a destination wedding. It's a good excuse to keep the affair small and intimate, which means we get to talk to all of our guests instead of just saying hi to hundreds of people we barely know.

Also, we like Vermont. It's beautiful and relaxing. Lots of green and mountains and fresh air. It's also a civil union state, and since weddings are so expensive, I'd rather spend our thousands of dollars supporting the wedding economy in a state where everyone can be legally joined with their partner. I am all for straight couples boycotting the wedding industry in states that discriminate against same sex couples. The wedding industry makes big money, and refusing to spend your wedding dollars in a place that discriminates is a good way to let lawmakers know that there are economic consequences for their bigotry. What about the poor caterers, photographers, florists, etc. in red state USA? Other industries that want laws made that are favorable to their business get together to pressure lawmakers to change policies in their favor. If the wedding industry cares about this, they too can lobby for a change in policy. If enough people make this a political and financial issue for lawmakers, they'll change what they're doing. Until they do, my wedding money goes to states like Vermont.

Any way, the trickiest part about wedding planning is the vegan thing. Most chefs either do not want to deal with vegans, or don't really understand what's involved with cooking for vegans. We don't eat eggs or dairy or meat. That means we do not eat butter and chicken stock. You'd think this would go without saying, but people seem to not understand that "I do not eat meat" means I also do not eat things made from meat. Also, fish is meat. I know omnivores think otherwise, but take my word for it, vegetarians and vegans do not eat it. If they do, they are not vegans or vegetarians. We also do not eat fish sauce or gelatin. I know it sounds like there is a long list of things we do not eat, but it's a short list and the list only gets long if you mention everything made from the short list of stuff we do not eat. The list of things we do eat is much longer.

The other thing most chefs do not understand is that vegans do not live on granola and hemp seeds. In fact, I can't remember the last time I ate either of those things. We do not want to spend $100 per plate on spaghetti, and we do not consider steaming carrots and broccoli with a dusting of paprika to be haute cuisine. We cook a lot, and are very knowledgeable about food. We can identify celery root and yucca on sight. We can tell you what every item in the produce department is and how to work with it. We have a over dozen kinds of oil and vinegar in our pantry. We know food and we like food. This is our wedding, and we want the food to be just as good as it would be if you were cooking for omnivores. In fact, you could probably get away with being less creative for an omnivore audience. Most of them might not know the difference between olive oil and hazelnut oil. We however do know the difference and we want you to wow us because we are spending a lot of money.

We are planning a trip to VT in a couple of weeks for tastings at wedding venues we liked. So far we have only tried the food at one place (The Weathersfield Inn) and their chef is super amazing. Here is what he made for us:







The Weathersfield is all around a cool place. It's eco-friendly and works with local farmers so the food is always really fresh. In the summer you can eat out under the stars around their cozy fire pit. This inn is worth visiting for any foodie couple looking for a romantic weekend getaway. The chef was really accommodating and nice, not to mention a great cook.

Normally, I do not like to bother people about my dietary choices. I'll join you at the restaurant of your choice and eat a completely lame wedge of Iceberg lettuce for dinner while you eat a steak and never complain. I do not like to impose, and do not like to perpetuate the reputation of vegans being difficult. All of that said, my wedding is my party and it's a day where things need to be done my way. When wedding venues seem put out about my wanting a great vegan meal for the reception it just tells me I need to find some place else that actually wants my money, and understands that this isn't me judging them or telling them to go vegan, or trying to annoy their chef. This is one of the most important parties I'm going to throw in my life and I need to work with a wedding venue that's going to accommodate my requests.

55 comments:

Vivacious Vegan said...

Congratulations on your engagement. That's so ridiculous that chefs would balk at preparing vegan food. A lot of chefs at restaurants I've talked to are excited about the opportunity to create something new. I wish you the best of luck in finding a caterer. Can't wait to see more pics as things progress.

Heather said...

Yum, that food is so beautiful!

Rachel said...

I had 3 vegans at my wedding (including myself). The hotel was pretty good at catering for us, although not amazingly inventive. The food looked everything as good as the meat options and it was cheaper which was a bonus!

Manggy said...

First of all: congratulations! I wish you a long and happy life together :) Don't worry, I completely understand your stand, even if I am an omnivore. I just wanna have a go at guessing what all the pretty food is:
1. onions, some herb flower (er, basil, thyme?) on pineapple
2. beet salad with hibiscus
3. grilled tofu, tomato (?) and roasted cauliflower and celery
4. peas and lentils? (okay, that's not even close)
5. strawberries, raspberry and mango sorbets.
Okay, maybe I didn't do too well, haha :) Have a great wedding and a great marriage!

burningwriter said...

Congrats on the wedding! Btw, the food looks amazing!

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João Soares said...

Hello
Nice blog.
Congratulations on your engagement.
Hugs from Bioterra (Portugal)

whoXcares said...

that looks so amazing...wow!!!

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Lindsay I-F said...

I just got married in Vermont and had a vegan wedding that was done by Tasty Persuasions, http://www.tastypersuasions.com/

Small Footprints said...

The pictures on your site make me so hungry! BTW ... congrats on your engagement. Of course, you wrote this post awhile back so ... by now ... perhaps you are married. If so ... an even bigger congratulations!

I love that you were looking for not only vegan food but an eco-friendly place to hold your wedding.

Since we became vegan, we've attended a few non-vegan weddings. We've been lucky ... the wedding couples have asked their caterers to accommodate us and they have. Funny thing is ... other party guests have looked at our dishes and wish they had them.

Best of luck!

Small Footprints
http://reducefootprints.blogspot.com

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